How often do we need the approval of others. Sometimes, for this we have to pay quite a high price: we become spineless people and it becomes difficult to understand what we want actually.
When our happiness begins to depend on other people, you need to stop and think about what is our life, where we are going and where we would like to move. Maybe the time has come to begin to love yourself better ?
If you do not accept yourself for who you are, then you do not love yourself
If you are not able to look at yourself objectively and accept yourself for who you are, if you notice that you turn into another person, then you are enough self love .
You made a serious mistake by transferring control of his life in the hands of others. Most likely, you feel lost.
Today we would like to tell you about the signs that you love yourself enough. If so, then you need to slow down and start to correct the situation.
It is possible that some of the described below will show you painfully familiar. Maybe you’ll see something related to you only in one or in several points.
1. Do you feel free, being itself?
The desire to meet the expectations of other highly exhausting. It is possible that you may seem obvious, but it’s true – a man much easier to be yourself than trying to become someone who does not really exist.
If you doubt whether you really feel like being free itself, with all its pros and cons, then it is time to look at his life and deeds .
Do you spend too much time around other people? Try to avoid being alone? Are you comfortable to be alone with him?
If so, then perhaps you difficult to accept yourself for who you are. And you better not think about it when you are in the company.
It is possible that you let others influence your personality , because of what you change. Therefore, you feel bad, when there’s nobody there.
The time has come to change your life and restore your real, true self.
2. Do not the courage to say what you think
Sometimes if you feel discomfort during a call, or fear to express their thoughts, because they do not coincide with the opinions of others?
If you are familiar with this situation, it means that you strive to please others, even if because of this you have to give up their views and to hide their true thoughts.
If you do not know how to firmly declare his, and you will remain unheard. People will continue to ignore your opinion , not taking it into account. Do not be afraid to be different and have a point of view different from the assumptions of others. Perhaps you have too low self-esteem. It is time to seriously approach this issue.
Your opinion is equally important and valuable than the opinion of others. Sometimes it seems that in this situation there is nothing dangerous, that’s nothing. This is not true! Talk about what you think, and to express their opinion and be heard. Let you count. Your opinion is really important.
3. You’re too self-critical
Perhaps your self-criticism had gone too far , and because of this you yourself drive themselves in a framework that does not allow you to move forward and develop. You’re punishing yourself for things that did not meet your expectations. Do not forget that the sources of error are our life experience and learn a lot. Thanks to them, we are moving forward.
Do not criticize yourself too seriously, try to appreciate achievements , even if it will be small and insignificant achievements. Hail them, even if you think it does not matter.
If you are able to see the reason for joy in small achievements, we congratulate you! This means that you have become to love yourself!
4. You no longer take care of themselves
Each of us wants to live in harmony with his own body. If this harmony is disturbed, then we are doing something wrong. You no longer take care of themselves, to pay attention to their dress and appearance, to eat properly? It is time for change!
Love yourself! Be healthy and take care of their looks for its own sake and not for others. First of all it is necessary to you! If you yourself do not, nobody will do it for you. You’re making a big mistake if you try to shift the responsibility onto the shoulders of others.
Now is the time to love yourself more and more attentive care for themselves.
5. You difficult to motivate yourself
Lack of motivation is practically nullifies the chances of success of any undertaking. If you do not believe in themselves, underestimate their strength and you do not have enough optimism , it is unlikely you will be able to achieve the desired.
You may make mistakes, and your loved ones do not have enough support to you. Do not give up, believe in themselves and follow their dreams.
Do not let others bring down yourself off track, whether it is true to his desires.
6. You do not have enough self-confidence
Trust yourself. Self-confidence is just as important as the motivation that we talked about earlier. Without it, it is impossible to move forward. Maybe you lost your self-confidence? You think it will not work for you? Able Do you appreciate each small success?
If you love yourself enough, you’ll trust yourself and do not let others beat you out of a rut. You’ll be able to achieve the desired, to learn from their mistakes. It’s not that difficult, is not it?
7. You lack sincerity in relations with others
It is possible that for some reason or another you hard to be open with others. Perhaps the cause is fear that prevents you show people your true face.
So you’re trying to protect, but this tactic does not go in our favor. Ultimately, it weakens us.
If you find it difficult to open up to others, if you do not love yourself fully, you will never be able to feel what it means to be truly loved. You can never fully trust the other person.
Because of this you will be sad, you will feel that you are not worthy of love. This is a big misconception because you are worthy of love no less than others.
First and foremost, you are worthy of love to itself.
Sometimes we can be difficult to regain confidence in their strength. Maybe you think you are unworthy of true love. And therefore prefer to injure themselves. If so, then you are mistaken. The time has come to solve this problem.
Do not forget what is at stake is your life, feelings, emotions and dreams. Appreciate your life, love yourself for who you are. It’s not easy, but the game is worth the candle.